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Where is the Haven? The Haven is located approximately 45 minutes Northwest of the Twin Cities in Minnesota in a semi-rural area. It is private, discreet, safe, well equipped, and above all, a FUN place to be! Who are the Mistresses?
Lady Careina is a hypnotist and erotic
hypnodomme.
Mistrss Lillian is a transsexual or Shemale
Dominatrix. Occasionally We might host a visiting Domina or permit the use of our facilities on a very limited basis. What is BDSM? BDSM is an acronym for B/d (Bondage & discipline) D/s (Dominance & submission) and S/m (Sadism/masochism). All are adult, consensual activities that adhere to the highest standards of ethics, safety, and fun. You might have heard of the acronym SSC: Safe, Sane, & Consensual. Nothing happens to you that you do not want to have happen. Boundaries and limitations are always respected. That said, pushing the envelope is also why you want a session with Lady Careina or Ms Lillian! Our goal is to help you explore your fantasies and fetishes in a non-judgmental, and accepting atmosphere where you can have as much pain or pleasure as you can stand! We want you to leave our presence feeling more well-off than you did previously. Although we take our "play" seriously, we could not do this if we didn't have fun too! Let go of your preconceived notions of a screaming man-hating, bitchy dominatrix right now! You will only get that if it is part of your role-play fantasy! Otherwise be prepared to have fun and enjoy yourself! What is a Shemale? A shemale is someone who is biologically male, but has the gender identity and appearance of a woman. Often a shemale has had some sort of breast augmentation surgery to achieve that feminine look and feel. Sometimes hormones can stimulate bodily changes to help create breasts. One important distinction between a m to f (male to female) transsexual and a shemale is that m to f transwomen identify strictly as women, and are typically not happy with their male genitalia. A shemale, on the other hand, wants the best of both worlds, enjoying fully functional sexuality along with female breasts. For example, Ms Lillian is a shemale, and Lady Careina is biologically female and of the female gender. What is Fetish? Fetish is when an object or a specific body part becomes the focus of arousal or gratification for someone. Common fetishes include panties, stockings, feet, boots, leather or rubber, and cross-dressing just to name a few. What do you mean by Fantasy? Many people have fantasies that they cannot attempt to fulfill anywhere but with someone like Lady Careina or Ms Lillian. Examples of common fantasies include role play like Nurse/patient, Mommy/child, Teacher/student, or Interrogator/spy. And of course there are many fantasies revolving around being "forced" to dress like a woman, or turned into a slut or sissy maid. Fantasy creates variations on those and myriad other themes. You are only limited by your imagination! What is Kink? "Kink" is an umbrella term that usually means sexually or erotically "deviant". More and more, kink can mean anything from tying a lover's wrists to the bedposts during sex, to living a 24/7/365 lifestyle of some form of BDSM. Everyone's definition is different and what is right for you may not be right for someone else. As always, discretion is the better part of valor, and although you might see versions of kink portrayed on TV and in books, none are definitive depictions. It still makes sense to keep your activities to yourself unless in the company of trusted and like-minded individuals. We take your privacy extremely seriously and value ours as well. You can find more information on our BLOG. We invite you to explore and enjoy! Why do you use hypnosis? Hypnosis is an additional bonus to your session if you want it. Although I (Lady Careina) am a trained and certified hypnotist and NLP practitioner, I have many years experience in the fetish and leather community. I started out doing classic pro domme sessions, and gradually began intentionally incorporating hypnotic techniques into those sessions to increase the enjoyment of my clients. But I enjoy many different things: in-person classic D/s, B/d, and S/m "play" scenes as well as in-person, and phone erotic hypnosis sessions. You can also commission special recordings for your exclusive personal use to listen to over and over again. 2010 will see me also producing many arousing and exhilarating MP3s geared toward different themes which anyone can purchase for their own enjoyment. Click here to learn more about hypnosis and NLP. My associate, Ms Lillian has dabbled with hypnosis and NLP, and is looking forward to gaining certification in the future. She already has enough skills and talents for more than one person without formal education in hypnosis. Although Ms Lillian is a real nurse and excels at doing medical scenes, she enjoys many other things as well. Being transgendered herself, she is in a unique position to facilitate your shemale fantasy! She also enjoys a wide variety of activities including bondage, corporal "punishment" and sensual "torture." |
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